Choose the setting
Meet in a public place at a time that works for you. Plan your own transport and tell a trusted friend where you expect to be. A simple coffee or daytime walk gives both people an easy way to decide whether to meet again.
Protect private details
Keep your address, financial information, and workplace specifics to yourself until you feel ready to share them. Be cautious if someone asks for money or pushes to move a conversation to an unfamiliar channel.
Respect your own boundary
You can end a conversation or leave a date if you feel uncomfortable. You do not owe a long explanation to someone who ignores a clear boundary. Use the dating service’s reporting tools for behavior that concerns you.
Take the next step
Review the current EliteSingles information to decide whether its approach fits your priorities.
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